If you’re trying to get the most out of local dating sites you really have your work cut out for you. You really do. Why? Most people approach local dating sites like they would have canned entertainment. They think that they just need to sit down, click on a button, enjoy your adult dating experience, click on a button and leave for a date in their local area. Well, if that’s your mind-set regarding local dating sites then it’s no surprise that you end up being disappointed time and time again. It’s no surprise that the other members really put on a crappy attitude because there’s no energy from the others.
You have to remember that any kind of adult entertainment is a two-way street. You’re not just there to passively consume the energy and the passion of the other members looking for a date in front of you. They feed off of you as well. It works in reverse as well. The more excited you get, the more excited they get. When they get excited, usually the other members responds by getting even more excited. Do you see how this works out?
This produces an upward spiral that enhances the experience of everybody else. The problem is when most people go to a live sex show they just expect that they’re going to just sit there and passively consume entertainment. They have this entitlement mentality. They feel that they don’t have to do anything to affect the performance. They feel that they don’t have to work at getting the kind of experience that they’re looking for.
It’s no surprise then that people don’t walk away with the experience that they came for. They didn’t put in the work. They didn’t put in the right kind of energy. If you want a great experience, you have to work for it or just use a good site to find locals, meet for sex. That’s the bottom line.